How to become a better kisser

Question

My girlfriend told me that I’m a terrible kisser. Considering we have been dating for a few months and only been told now, I really feel insecure. How should I level up my kissing skills? Be more proactive and aggressive? Are people comfortable with French kissing? And how to become a better kisser?

Answer 1

When you kiss, try to pay attention to your partner. It’s pretty much dancing with your lips. You need to learn to somewhat synchronize with your partner, or adapt to what the style they are more interested in. Some enjoy the lips to lips contact at most, some enjoys the French kisses, but that is all depend on your partner. So kind of more like sex. If you aren’t sure then ask. It’s something for both of you to enjoy. You are going to learn each other together if you want to get any better at it. There are a lot that is left to preferences. Me and my girlfriend jump straight to trying out French kissing soon after our first kiss and loving it ever since.

Answer 2

How to become a better kisser? Just like sex, it’s always better to start with a role-play and slowly shift to the main action. Start out slow, go for around lips first, lean back and passionately gaze at your partner. If she is signaling you to go on, then do just that. You want to tease your partner to long for that kiss. Continue the kiss with just your lips. Imagine nibbling on each other’s lips. DON’T SUCK THEIR LIPS. You are trying to be a kisser, not a vacuum cleaner. That’s the basic anyway. In fact, for once I could say that romantic movies do it best to portray this. Slow, passionate and then gets more powerful.

Answer 3

Men and woman see kisses differently. Women see it as a great start to a relationship, sort of like leaving a strong lasting first impression, and the one that will continue to reinforce the relationship. Men being man sees it a prelude to sex. As a man ignore that thoughts about it leading to sex once in a while, do it as an act of intimacy and tenderness to your partner. It’s a way to show that your relationship is so much more than just sex. Once in a while, just kiss and cuddle, these is important to sustain a long-term relationship, a constant reminder that the two of you still care and love each other.